Deep Questions for Couples

About Deep Questions for Couples

Sample questions to get you started

• What's something you've never told anyone but want to share with me?
• What's your biggest dream that you haven't pursued yet?
• How has our relationship changed you as a person?
• What's a fear you'd like to overcome together?
• What does feeling truly safe in a relationship mean to you?
• What's a lesson from a past relationship you're grateful for?
• In what moments do you feel most connected to me?
• What's something about yourself you're still learning to accept?
• How do you want to grow in the next year?
• What's the hardest thing you've forgiven someone for?

Tap the game above to play through all prompts.

How to play Deep Questions

1. Grab your partner, sit face-to-face or curl up on the couch.
2. Open this page on a phone or laptop and tap to start.
3. Take turns answering, reacting, and asking follow-up questions.
4. No timer, no pressure, the goal is to slow down and connect.

Why couples love this game

Psychologists find that novel, playful experiences release dopamine and rebuild attraction in long-term relationships. Deep Questions works because it creates a structured excuse to ask things you'd normally skip, and laugh at the answers together. A handful of prompts is often enough to turn a regular Tuesday into a real date night.

Tips to make it more fun

• Put phones face-down for anything unrelated to the game.
• Set the mood, dim lights, a drink, zero distractions.
• If an answer surprises you, ask "why?" before moving on.
• Rotate who goes first each round so it stays balanced.
• Save your favorite answers, they're gold to laugh about later.

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