This or That: Couple Edition

About This or That for Couples

Sample questions to get you started

• Coffee ☕ or Tea 🍵
• Morning person 🌅 or Night owl 🌙
• Sweet 🍰 or Savory 🧀
• City life 🏙️ or Countryside 🌿
• Call 📞 or Text 💬
• Plan everything 📋 or Be spontaneous ✨
• Stay in 🛋️ or Go out 🎉
• Summer ☀️ or Winter ❄️

Tap the game above to play through all prompts.

How to play This or That

1. Grab your partner, sit face-to-face or curl up on the couch.
2. Open this page on a phone or laptop and tap to start.
3. Take turns answering, reacting, and asking follow-up questions.
4. No timer, no pressure, the goal is to slow down and connect.

Why couples love this game

Psychologists find that novel, playful experiences release dopamine and rebuild attraction in long-term relationships. This or That works because it creates a structured excuse to ask things you'd normally skip, and laugh at the answers together. A handful of prompts is often enough to turn a regular Tuesday into a real date night.

Tips to make it more fun

• Put phones face-down for anything unrelated to the game.
• Set the mood, dim lights, a drink, zero distractions.
• If an answer surprises you, ask "why?" before moving on.
• Rotate who goes first each round so it stays balanced.
• Save your favorite answers, they're gold to laugh about later.

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