Questions to Ask Your Wife

About Ask Your Wife for Couples

Sample questions to get you started

• What's something you've been wanting to tell me but haven't found the right moment?
• When was the last time you felt truly appreciated?
• What's a dream you'd love for us to chase together?
• How can I be a better husband this week?
• What's your happiest memory from our marriage?
• What does your ideal weekend look like?
• What's something you need more of right now?
• When do you feel most beautiful?
• What's a tradition you'd love for our family to have?
• What's something I said that you'll never forget?

Tap the game above to play through all prompts.

How to play Ask Your Wife

1. Grab your partner, sit face-to-face or curl up on the couch.
2. Open this page on a phone or laptop and tap to start.
3. Take turns answering, reacting, and asking follow-up questions.
4. No timer, no pressure, the goal is to slow down and connect.

Why couples love this game

Psychologists find that novel, playful experiences release dopamine and rebuild attraction in long-term relationships. Ask Your Wife works because it creates a structured excuse to ask things you'd normally skip, and laugh at the answers together. A handful of prompts is often enough to turn a regular Tuesday into a real date night.

Tips to make it more fun

• Put phones face-down for anything unrelated to the game.
• Set the mood, dim lights, a drink, zero distractions.
• If an answer surprises you, ask "why?" before moving on.
• Rotate who goes first each round so it stays balanced.
• Save your favorite answers, they're gold to laugh about later.

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